Cute Man: Like what? What do you want to know?
Me: I don’t know, surprise me!
Cute Man: Well I am getting through a messy divorce and have two children.
So that was my deal breaker. How could I date a man with children? I have more vodka in my fridge then food. I can’t date a man with rug rats, even if he was drop-dead gorgeous. But we all have deal breakers, you know those tiny little flaws that will determine whether or not we move from dating to a monogamous relationship. Some are small like not paying for dinner. Whereas some are larger, like going through a divorce. The point is we all have them. So I started asking the question, “What’s your deal breaker?”
Sheila’s Deal Breaker: “A man who can’t form a tangible sentence or tell you what he is actually feeling in the relationship.”
Yasmin’s Deal Breaker: “Someone that lives with too much shit and doesn’t know who they really are.”
Martin’s Deal Breaker: “A girl who never gets off her phone and uses too many F*#$ing emoticons.”
So it is clear that we all have various deal breakers. What are we able to live with in a relationship? Are some flaws forgivable? Or are some flaws just deal breakers?
What is your deal breaker?